HuBbY & WiFeY 4eVeR In LoVe

*the bride and groom's foreword *

Welcome to Bren and Jim bloggie!

Here's our love story that will not end with a full stop forever and ever....

aLL mY mOsT bEaUtIfUl DrEaMs AnD hOpEs HaVe YoU iN tHeM... SoMeHoW mAdE eVeN mOrE bEaUtIfUl iN yOuR hAnDs ThAn I eVeR tHoUgHt CoUlD bE... I gIvE mY hEaRt AnD lOvE tO yOu To Be HeLd AnD cHeRiShEd By YoU fOrEvEr...

Daisypath Anniversary Years Ticker

*the charming groom *

# Jimmy aka MadSuSu
# 29 years old

*he loves *

# wifey aka galgal
# fishing
# computer games
# animes/manga
# watching sports

*his wishlist *

:: sayang galgal ::
:: lose weight ::
:: earn enough ::
:: marry galgal ::

*the blushing bride *

# Bren aka blur-gal
# 25 yrs old

*she loves *

# hubby aka daddy
# reading
# singing
# cooking
# shopping

*her wishlist *

:: be good to hubby ::
:: slim down ::
:: get married & buy flat by 2009 ::

Sunday, June 25, 2006
1 more day to 4th Anniversary!

Time really flies... Its the World Cup time again, abt the same time we got to know each other 4yrs back.

Thinking back, we have been through so much, full of ups and downs. Despite mostly are downs, be it major or minor, I guess we have survive and passed through. We have still chosen to stick by each other through good and bad, we have managed to overcome the obstacles and we are probably start preparing for our big day in a few yrs time.

On a sad note, we probably do not have the means to have a "dream wedding". Nevertheless, its the love between us that matters in the end.

I have been filled with envy whenever I see people ard me getting ROM/married. I hope someday I'll be able to be like them. I wonder when that day will come for me.
I guess age is catching up with me, I'm feeling old already. They are all ard my age and thinking of my own wedding in maybe 3 yrs' time, guess I'll look a wreck already.

I still have many obstacles to go through and I hope I'll be strong and determined enough to endure it all. I'm honestly tired... I have fought so hard for my love for yrs but my mum's objections, harsh words, discouragement, on-off attitude has really tortured me so much that I sometimes wanna give it all up to shut her up. So many times I have been hurt by her words and actions, so many times I have cried silently to sleep. All I ask is for her blessings and understanding... I have been hurt enough once, I don't wanna go through it again, I won't be able to take it anymore.

Just some stuff I wanna tell her though she will never see this:

Dear Mummy,

I was once wrong, I had made a mistake, I had probably created a lot of problems/unhappiness/heartbreak for you because of my carelessness/mistake. But, I have grown up, I'm no younger a teenager who's too head over heels in love to think/plan carefully. I have learnt a painful lesson and I am sure this time round I've made the right choice. I know you want the best for me, I understand that as a parent, you just want to see us to be married to the right man. But... Your idea of a right man (rich, gd job/career etc) might not be my idea of a right man. He's my right man, the only one I still want despite all your objections and prejudice towards us/him. I love you and you're impt to me, just as much as I love him and he is impt to me too. I can't do without either, so pls don't force me to choose cos this time round, I will not give up easily.

I know its not easy, but pls give us time and some understanding. We are both struggling hard for our dreams and plans. We might not have the means now or in the near future, but what matters most is we love each other deeply. Isn't tt supposed to be the most impt thing in a r/s or marriage? We trust each other and we hope to have your blessings someday. Pls do try to see his gd points and what he has done for me. It might be what you want/like, but its all these things that has brought us together and love each other.

I hope 3yrs later, I have your blessings on my big day and that history will not repeat again. I have grown up, pls give me the freedom and respect I deserve. I have been listening to you and following your rules becos I don't want any unhappiness or friction between us. Pls understand I have give in and sacrificed a lot, so pls stop making things difficult for us...