HuBbY & WiFeY 4eVeR In LoVe

*the bride and groom's foreword *

Welcome to Bren and Jim bloggie!

Here's our love story that will not end with a full stop forever and ever....

aLL mY mOsT bEaUtIfUl DrEaMs AnD hOpEs HaVe YoU iN tHeM... SoMeHoW mAdE eVeN mOrE bEaUtIfUl iN yOuR hAnDs ThAn I eVeR tHoUgHt CoUlD bE... I gIvE mY hEaRt AnD lOvE tO yOu To Be HeLd AnD cHeRiShEd By YoU fOrEvEr...

Daisypath Anniversary Years Ticker

*the charming groom *

# Jimmy aka MadSuSu
# 29 years old

*he loves *

# wifey aka galgal
# fishing
# computer games
# animes/manga
# watching sports

*his wishlist *

:: sayang galgal ::
:: lose weight ::
:: earn enough ::
:: marry galgal ::

*the blushing bride *

# Bren aka blur-gal
# 25 yrs old

*she loves *

# hubby aka daddy
# reading
# singing
# cooking
# shopping

*her wishlist *

:: be good to hubby ::
:: slim down ::
:: get married & buy flat by 2009 ::

Saturday, October 01, 2005
*poof* Jimmy's back

keke.. of coz i'm busy la.. but with good excuse! you may think this is not the 1st time I'm using 'busy&tired' as an excuse but how about working more OTs & taking up more freelance jobs even on saturdays and sundays(haven't had a day break for 2weeks) so that i can speed up my savings and marry galgal sooner? Still a lousy excuse?, go shoot urself then :P
there's one thing that greatly worries me now is galgal's situation in the company.. beside the usual unreasonable customers and heavy workload, her manager seems to be bias against her and 2 incidents to support my suspicion.
1) There was someone downloading non-work related program fron the internet and the IT dept complaint to the boss, he called up a meeting and gave a warning to everyone but.. kept he stared at galgal while he was making his point. Nvm that, at the end of it, he said 'don't know who it was but IT dept can trace', huh?? if he didn't know who it was then he must have 'assume-d' it? just because the complains came in only after galgal joined the company? let me explain a little bit about the word 'assume' and why i hate it so much. Breakup the word you get 'Ass-u-me' which for me, it means 'making an Ass out of U & Me', rhymes? Anyone who lives on that 'assume' principle alot either in work or play will likely be a failure because not making sure and/or being too plain lazy to find the facts and uses 'assume' to work their way through causes hell lot of problems. If you encounter such people before, you'll get what I mean.
2) This one really pissed me off when i heard about it. 2 person, belonged to an ops dept which galgal works closely with, were having an argument and got called into the manager's office. Then one guy started blaming everyone else that they are making it hard for him to work and gave a few examples then galgal and one other colleague was mentioned and so called to the manager's office too. The guy's complain was he asked galgal for an info but instead told the another guy, because galgal was closer to him. But according to galgal this guy asked her for the info in the morning and the customer didn't gave her an answer until in the afternoon, then conincidently the 2nd guy(he works afternoon) came in and asked galgal for the answer, so galgal told him. Then this manager(same as the above-mentioned) blamed galgal for creating the misunderstanding between these 2 guys and said she should have told the 1st guy when she got the answer. But these 2 guys are working in the same dept, and if the someone is asking for the same info from that dept and when asked by someone else from that dept and she gave the info, definitely her part is done right? I mean whatever happens within that other dept is not her problem. then this complaing guy complied about galgal's colleague too with the thought of pushing blames away and making it look like he is the victim here..
Having one or few of these type of colleague in a co. is probably not unusual and is bearable is things don't get screwed up too often. But having a manager like that? haiz.. I just feel that if galgal is getting these type of unneccessary stress must too often then she should probably move on, the basic pay maybe high but the non-compensated almost everyday OTs and with a boss mentioned above, it's not worth it.
Whatever it is galgal, daddy always by your side. muackz.